My friends and I (women in our late 20s) were chatting about the smut (spicy) books we've read, and we realized that most of these books are written by women. This got us wondering just how accurate their descriptions of men really are. So here we are… curious, innocent women, looking for answers.

1. Do men actually like it when women act possessive during intimacy? If so, what makes it appealing? And if not, why not?

2. Do men enjoy it when women act submissive to highlight their dominance in bed?

3. Are there any role-plays women do that you think are essential or particularly exciting during sex

4. What are your favorite kinks?

5. Do some men actually end up falling in love with women they initially only intended to hook up with?

That's everything we've come up with so far, but if anything else comes to mind, we'd gladly love to be educated. Thanks in advance! Lol.