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I have sm all ones and he swears he loves me and my body and canāt imagine life without me. Weāve been together 1 year and he said he wants to marry me, but I found searches where he specifically looks for that and obviously prefers it in a partner, even when we first met he followed sluts in instagram with these characteristics, which has traumatized me and canāt stop thinking about what he likes now, which is not what I am. Even if he likes me TOO, I know he would prefer I had bigger bbs. Is he just wasting my time, will he eventually cheat, or will he resort to looking that up to jerk off for the rest of his life?
We already talked about it extensively and he insists he loves my body but also likes variety and so he also likes other things, but claims he likes my body āmoreā, which I donāt feel is truthful otherwise all his searches would not be for bigger chested girls.
There is no way to feel better or win by sharing our likes on things we donāt have for each other. Yeah Iād like if he had bigger and more muscular chest and back or bigger dick, and he can tell me how he likes big tits and taller girls but how on Earth does that help? Itās just going to wreck our intimacy even more
I have a small waist and decent hips so hats good to know I guess..
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Sure, I guess I would like if he had some different attributes like more muscular and taller or bigger chest and back, or bigger dick, but, I am in love and attracted to him the way he is and donāt want to change him and I donāt go poison my brain jerking off to guys that look like that and nothing like him, isnāt that toxic to our intimacy?