I want to have sex every day, sometimes multiple times a day, but he is not able to fulfill that and feels pressure from that. He has mentioned he likes when we do it every other day, to recharge, and that he enjoys it more when there has been some time in between. He has also been struggling the past year with not having super hard erections, which he is going to see a urologist about but that will take a few months due to stupid wait times in our area. I love him and don’t want him to feel insufficient but also struggle a bit with our different sex drives, to the point it has made me insecure about myself even though he tells me he is crazy about my body and we had one major debilitating fight a few months ago about me finding porn in his phone of big tit girls when I’m petite and small breasted (but fit and with bootie). I worked on moving past that and even tried therapy for the first time to try to get over that incident and not let it make me feel I’m the issue I don’t enjoy masturbating, as I am very visual, and the only way I get off masturbating is with a vibrator and porn, which I don’t want to do because I do think porn affects being sexually healthy in relationships and it is what caused a major almost breakup issue for us, as mentioned, so I would not want to be a hypocrite and watch porn with guys that don’t look like my bf. I genuinely want him and our sexual satisfaction to come from each other. Thanks for reading…