I 28M have never really had a social circle and my job is a Male Dominated Industry. So I never really had the opportunity to meet someone like that and also never had anyone set me up with someone either. There are women at my company but I have a strict “Don’t shit where you eat” policy.

So therefore I always did things either through the old fashioned Cold Approach and or Online Dating. But these have been made redundant for me. I’m not that attractive to get success in these two ways. I mean I’m above average, 6ft tall, muscular and have good hygiene and style. But I’m no Chad or Giga-Chad to have success that way.

But also there’s the saying:”It’ll come when you least expect it.” But you still have to put yourself out there. I’m going to be attending this weekly event at this Geek Store, attending Hobby Clubs and the occasional Meetup. But unlike Cold Approach and Online Dating; I can’t be super direct and start off by telling her how pretty I think she is. I gotta play the long game;

But how do I initiate something like that?