Our jobs are not and would not an any point intersect and this is a big corporation with three buildings on campus so we would not even see each other, but we could share commute, maybe the occasional lunch together, and not to mention I just got laid off and this would be a good job that pays well and would help my resume and he knows this and chose not to partake and lie about it because he does not want me there clearly and it kills me he won’t be honest about why. See my answer above for the excuses he made up

Yes, but he is not being honest. He panicked and gave me like 3 different reasons none of which make sense. 1) he didn’t have time, which is BS, he had the whole week and it takes 40 seconds to send a brief email with an attachment 2) he didn’t think I really wanted that job since we plan to move in 6 months and it’s on site, but I got laid off this week so it’d be great even for 6 months and I told him I would like that job so this is also BS 3) he felt weird about emailing my resume to someone he does not know. BS because it’s not relevant if you know the person, you’re just passing a resume for consideration and that’s all.

Truth is he does not want me working there and it kills me he won’t tell me why and I am trying to figure out other possible reasons

I don’t think he has a work affair, we spend almost all our time together outside of him going to the office 2-3 times a week and us doing our respective exercise activities, we spend 24/7 together outside of that doing lots of things, we live together, we share our locations live on iPhone, I don’t know, I wish I knew why he doesn’t want me there. Maybe he is afraid of my jealousy and if I ever see him interact with female coworkers or something

I did apply through the official means, the issue is he lied and my concern is he does not want me there but is not telling me why. Again, big corporation with three buildings and our jobs not related whatsoever

What country is that? I’m in the US, but we’re not married and even if we were, this is not related to his department and I’m qualified for the job and just want my resume to be seen

Of course I applied through the official portal, the point is that he lied about it because he does not want me there, and then he lied some more about why he lied. Wtf