Not “you” specifically but hundreds of individuals over time saying “I am 30 somthing and my life is over” or “I can’t seem to ….” Or “guys like that have it easy” or “I could never be” or all kinds of excuses.

You are alot closer to being cool and strong than you think. If you keep your head up for long enough to try things, you can hone your approach and be as beautiful, as strong, as loved as you wanna be. The only limit is your own desire.

You can’t be too short or too small. You can still be attractive. You can’t be too shy. Just find what enlightens you. You can’t be alone. There are too many other lonely people looking for you.

Chances are, you are a few decisions away from being exactly who you want for the time being.