Throughout my life (23M) I've had 1 girfriend and I've been in a handful of "talking stages" but nothing has ever materialized out of them. The hard part people say I have down is being able to make conversation and make people laugh, I've always been able to have conversations with anyone, it's just something that comes natural to me. But the "easy part" is simply starting a conversation and getting your foot in the door, and that is something I absolutely suck at. When it comes to conversations it comes easy to me because I have no ulterior motive, we're just talking about anything, but when it comes to trying to talk to a girl I'm interested in it's like I'm incapable of saying anything flirtatious because of all the possibilities I think could happen (I overthink a lot). I just don't like the idea of making people uncomfortable guys or girls and I feel that if I go up to a girl with the intentions of flirting they'll figure out and they might get uncomfortable. I don't know what I'm supposed to say, should say, act like, etc. Starting is always the hardest part for me, so if anyone of you guys have any tips for me I'm all ears, except for one liners, please don't give me any one liners 😭.