You need to get over her having desires that don't include you. It doesn't have to be an either/or it can be a yes/and. Do not TELL me you don't have fantasies or eye fuck other women, I'll call you a liar. She can love hung dicks and be turned on by them without it being a comparison to yours (whatever size it is) and you being "deficient" or somehow you are lesser because of it in her eyes. Cause your insecurity is showing. It's not about her, it's about you (obviously). Not trying to be a jerk here, but let it goooooo.

Uhhhh nope, not "buthurt" at all. This reply makes no sense and you just reveal how little you understand. It's low ball standards to not want to be controlling over your partner because of one's insecurities? I explicitly stated that I wasn't trying to be a dick, but this idea that men can't be okay with their partner being turned on by something other than them is immature. He literally said he was concerned about her even LOOKING at another dude's dick at a strip club. That's crazy and, in my opinion, he should really look at himself about that, cause guaranteed he's probably hit a strip club or two in his time and doesn't think much of it. So, low grade misogyny is "wanting better in one's life"? He posted a question, he doesn't have to listen to the replies. That's called being an adult. Again, your reply here is a lot of ignorant nonsense, which you're entitled to as well.

bad shit happens? What does that even mean? If it's a strip club, he's definitely being at the height of insecurity. He himself said that he's concerned about his girlfriend even just "eyefucking" another man's junk. Is he worried that she watches porn, too? Grow up.