Every few weeks I get the massive period message about how the relationship feels one sided, and she doesn’t feel like she gets enough love (no matter how hard work) How do you survive during this time?

Edit: Thank you all for the comments, I’ve read every single one. To clarify a few things

1. She is diagnosed with depression, goes to therapy, and is on antidepressants. To everyone who said as much, congratulations, you were right.

2. I do my best to be as good of a boyfriend as I can. I buy her gifts, take her out to get breakfast, tell her I love her every night. I even brought donuts over for her and her family the same day. She acknowledges I’m amazing in person, and wants that same level of attention and affection online.

3. I don’t dismiss her when this happens. We call, and I listen. I do my best to change my behavior, snapping with her whenever I can, randomly sending an I love you message, giving compliments on her outfits.