30M single i cant stop being so naive around every person, i mean i have no guts other men have, the wittyness the quick thinking etc. Im simply a plain dude, i mean i dont have any second thoughts or long thoughts, i just do things and they are so naive, i have being decieved by women men and even from kids, cause im naive, whatever i do i pity fir the other person i think emotionally and i suck up my loses. Imagine im selling a bike a dude comes to buy it telling he has no money as his wife is sick and kids in school etc, id endup selling the bike for half of the price later to find out that im ripped of buy an bike flipping dude. Same thing goes with women even married women fake flirt with me in hope of id give them a drop in my car as its better and free than affording a taxi daily after work. I mean i know im getting sucked off and ripping off but i still dont do anything about it, i dont have the witty attitude and thinking other men have. The women i told never asks favor from other men as they know they dont do favors to them like me, but still they respect other men and im the always available funny easygoing nice dude. Im fedup being that way, i even dont know how to act like a man for my age, even kids who are younger than me never treat me as an older wise dude, they just call me by name. Cause they dont see me as an elser by my looks or my naive behavior. Im single but even if i in a relationship i find it harder to dominate or take lead as the man. Im afriad im not good enough and i dont want to upset people. So i suck it up and take my loses. Because of this my daily life is so hard always giving people my personal space my money and time for the sake of fake compliments. My dad is the same way he is so naive too, its in the genetics too. Idk how to change this