Ok so, I’m trying to move to London for work and personal reasons. The guy I’m dating is due to leave his current accommodation in the next few months. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Is it too soon to ask him if he wants to move in with me?

I wouldn’t usually even consider this 4 months in but speaking honestly, I’m serious about this guy. I’m not dating him to waste time. I’m genuinely looking at him as future husband material and I get the impression he feels the same. Also, it doesn’t seem to make much sense for us both to be paying circa 1k a month each for a room when we spend 3 days a week staying at each others place and the other 4 days wishing we were together (cringe, I know).

Would really apprecaite other peoples thoughts on this. Would also appreciate any suggestions on how to broach this with him. I’m feeling a little shy/embarrassed about asking him to basically move in with me as I don’t want to come on too strong 😂😂