So, recently I had my first lesbian experience (first time I kissed and had sex with a woman) and I'm over the moon. However, being the first time for both of us, I'm not sure I did it properly and it has been frustrating because neither of us had an orgasm. Although it did feel like she was enjoying it (by her body language and words), after some time she simply asked to stop.

I also felt like we did just oral (she doesn't like penetration) and I don't know what else we could do. We're still getting to know each other and learning to be comfortable talking about this stuff, hence why I came here.

I guess I just want to know what I can do to show that I care and how important it is to me that this whole thing goes well.