I've tried my hand at online dating over the years, and it hasn't gone well, but lately it feels like I've been blessed by the lesbian love goddess or something, because I've been asked out by three different women. Before you ask how I did it or that I'm bragging... I have no idea how this happened, okay? Lol. But...

Well, I'm freaking out a bit. I'm an old-fashioned romantic. I usually focus on one person at a time, even if we're just talking and nothing official is happening. I like to give my sole undivided attention to whoever I'm getting to know. And yes, in this age of online dating that isn't the best strategy, but whatever. Now, however...

Maybe I'm creating problems that aren't there, I haven't even been on the first date yet, but I just feel so... guilty? Like I'm being dishonest or cheating on them, even though we just met and aren't official since our first date hasn't even happened yet????

Does anyone else feel this way, and if so, how the hell do I get over this?