My ex is taking me to court (contempt motion over divorce order) accusing that I am sabotaging the sale of my house. It's not true, she claims I refused to accept offers or lower the sale price - all conversations have taken place in a three way chat between her, myself, and our realtor. I directly asked if I had ever refused offers or to lower the sale price and the realtor answered never.

The house goes into forclosure next month, court date in the middle of it. I get legal insurance on the first, but can't afford a lawyer otherwise. She wouldn't sign to end a forbearance we took together making us two years late.

We have an offer that would push us upside down and she's really pushing to take it instead of countering, but I don't know what, if any, ulterior motive she might have with that. And saying no worries me about the court dates for both the forclosure and her contempt hearing.