Hi, 34 M from Australia here and in really need of help, advice, anything I can get really...

Around 2-3 years ago my recent ex girlfriend who was 6 months pregnant when I met her, helped that child into this world and remember signing birth extract as father). She had hunted me down to say she believed that one of her children is mine due to doing the calculations and believed she was only 1 week pregnant when we split. Also that she did a DNA test with the fellow that she cheated on me with and he was negative. So I was only next liable choice.

She didn't want child support, but I still offered to send anything she needed for the child if I had the funds as I am currently unemployed and have mental health issues that I am currently getting help for. I asked if it was ok if I could get a DNA test done, which she agreed.... At first!

I still have not even met the child or been able to see or speak to my other child, she is now saying that she knew all along that the child isn't mine and thinks sending me a picture of the child's birth certificate is "the only proof I'll get" and she will charge me for harrassment if I take her to court for the test. She has also blocked me from all ways of contact.

I did have screenshots of the whole conversations I had with her, and sent copies to my sister. But unfortunately she accidentally deleted them and I believe that I have no case now. All I want to do is to be a father! And life and fate aren't letting me! If the child isn't mine, then she won't see or hear from me again, but I want to be in the child's life if I am!!

Please, can anyone help? PM me if you can, if needed and accepted I am willing to exchange phone numbers and do anything to sort this out. Thankyou.