Okay, Im not quite sure how to put it.

Im bisexual transgender woman, Im femme, not super femme but femme. Most of my experiences comes from casual relationships with men which feels very straightforward for me. With women, experiences like these, with romancing, is very very little.

I had some kind of relationship with another woman who was also feminine and many times I felt like I should act as someone with masculine role there. I didnt had to but it felt like I should. I wasnt very uncomfortable with it but it wasnt something I really wanted. Im not sure how thights could go, how could I act otherwise.

I want to know more how things like that work as someone with almost zero experience in my life. Need something insightful to understand it. Does it usually come to someone taking on role? Does it not?