Met this guy through a mutual straight friend, he’s openly out and everything.

We are both 30.

We exchanged contact info and began hanging out casually. Then it became a weekly thing. WEEKLY. Then it became a “lets try to do something different next time. Lets do this/that I’ve never done it.”

He initiates hanging out, so do I. If I reach out to hang and he cant that day its usually “how about Sunday or this day instead?”

We clearly are friends but truth is, the more we’ve been hanging out the more I’m starting to like him.

He’s opened up to me about his frustrations with dating and ghosting and how he wants something serious.

He would randomly ask me if I’ve had any hookups recently and if I’m talking to anyone. That’s fine. But he asked me The same question the next time we hung out.

He told me he’s been casually seeing someone but pretty much made it seem like a negative thing. But if he were talking to someone why does he always reach out to me to try things with?

The other night felt like a full on date night. We sat in the hot tub, cooked together then watched a movie. It was real cute.

I was thinking the next time we hang I’ll open up to him but kinda worried it will ruin things. What do ya’ll think?