I have a sweet elderly neighbor who is a 75 year old man. He’ll make conversation about the weather and life, but we don’t really talk.

I am not secretive in anyway, he just never knew and we didn’t talk about it. Anyway, the gay couple in the building next door came over for drinks last night. when I saw my elderly neighbor, he told me how he thought it was great I had the nice neighbor and his roommate Over. I didn’t say anything, nor anything about myself.

I don’t know why I didn’t say more. I had to get to work and didn’t want to have a long conversation, but feels weird I’m not out.

Is there anyone in your lives for any reason you’re not out to and why?