Wanted to get everyone’s thoughts on this One of my best friends moved to a new city and met this really cute guy at a bar. They’ve started to hang out more and just became Instagram friends. While my friend has about 200 followers, his new bf has close to 40,000. He also sees him posting videos of him working out shirtless or posting stories shirtless. He says when they are together - this guy is always getting DMs.

Usually when couples become exclusive, they’ll dump Grindr or scruff, but what to do in this situation. I didn’t really know what to say or advice to give me. Do any of you have large followings or date guys that do?