Met a cool introverted guy a few weeks back. After a few times of hanging out and making out, he told he's a virgin. We blew each other and took thing slow for next few weeks. I had sex him with a few times since then.

Now, when we hook up, I'll either start to suck him or stroke him and he'll cum right away. When it's time return the favor, he's not that into it after he cums. I've tried to get him to take care of me first, but we're still navigating that. While I don't mind taking care of myself after he cums every once in awhile, I don't want to make it a habit. How do you guys navigate this.

The guy is mid 20s, and I'm early 30s.