I think I made a horrible decision by moving to Texas, El Paso specifically! There are no guys here (or that’s how it feels.) Even looking on apps it’s like the land of DL guys that are all married to women but want to be fucked when they can sneak away… or it’s a few guys ages 18-22 with no experience with other guys and still closeted! No one posts or has pics (which is like a set up to be catfished…) No diversity here, mostly Mexican which I don’t have an issue with but options would be nice, all of them are chubs and cubs and bears which I’m not into and penis sizes are all 4.5 and below… Like what kind of hell is this !!!!!! Lmao I moved here for a job and in turn sacrificed my social life and the dating/ gay scene! I’m vers, black and 42, and all of the guys are total bottoms… which is kinda boring for me because they don’t use their dick, and possibly because they know they are small in that area. I feel like staying here means I will be doomed to remain alone. Has anyone else experienced anything like this in their area?

Just venting because it’s going on 10 months and no interactions at all.

And I refuse to lower my standards of what I like and prefer because ultimately I’m just short changing myself while the other person is being satisfied. Okay I’m done, now off to start my day… hope you all have an awesome day too!