Me (34) and my FWB (46) of 2 years recently started talking about exploring more and getting kinky inside and outside the bedroom.

I do not have any experience in any of the things we both brought that we’d like to try together. He’s got more experience since he’s had the chance to explore more with his partner, but I’d like to hear some of your guys’ experiences getting kinky with FWB’s / partners.

I’d really like to try a chastity belt / cage and have him keep the key, have a remote controlled vibrating butt plug for him to control at any time from his house. Electrosex was also brought up. The idea of all these things turns me on as I’ve never met someone who’s been this open and whom I’ve felt fully comfortable with exploring beyond “normal sex.”

For those who have had similar experiences, any tips / advice or ideas you’d share? What was your experience with different kinks.