Ever heard of or played yourselves in “hotwife” scenarios as described in the following? - not as a “hotwife” as it’s written, but a gay corollary? I’ve candidly never heard of “hot husband” before within the following context and understanding -

CONTEXT: I stumbled across a Reddit post on r/tooafraidtoask yesterday that put words to something through discourse in the comments I hadn’t heard others talk about so plainly before. Some light internet browsing made it seem a common practice in hetero fantasy, role play, and swinging communities. I’m curious how this Reddit community would talk about the same or similar.

REFERENCE: https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/s/GRqsx38QSI

As best as I can summarize things, the following seems to be a commonly held “Hotwife” definition in hetero circles.

HOTWIFE: A “hotwife” is a woman who is generally submisive, she fucks others with her husband approval and encouragement. The husband is usually a voyeur and enjoys to see his wife fuck, pleasure other guys, or beeing satisfied by others. The “hot wife” is where the wife is shown off and encouraged to have sex with other people, usually other men, but not limited to that. The “hot wife” could be the dominant or the submissive in the spousal relationship, or neither. The partner of the “hot wife” may or may not join the “hot wife” when she is engaged in sex outside the primary relationship - and usually, but not always, when joining, it is to watch only. If the other partner is joining in on the sex, that usually comes under a swinging definition within a non-monogamous relationship vs “hot wife”, although there is nothing to say that the two cannot be combined. But the main aspect to “hot wife” is that she is “advertised” for the purpose of having sex outside the marriage. And yes, “hot husband” is also a thing. There are many varieties of “hot wife”, however in a “hot wife” relationship the husband is still the driving force behind their sexual activities.

Vs

CUCKOLDING: Cuckolding involves a dominant/submissive dynamic where the submissive partner (cuckold or cuckquean) is often denied sexual gratification and may be belittled by their partner. The dominant partner, typically in a female-led relationship, decides their sexual activities, which may involve the submissive partner watching or knowing about their encounters. This dynamic can extend beyond the bedroom to include chores and service to the partner and their sexual partners. Common aspects also include chastity and service to the "bull" or “bulls”.

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I recognize that not everything needs a label, but maybe commonly held definitions and labels are how we share and communicate things that are otherwise difficult or inefficient to explain. Think on how a ‘side’ as a sexual preference is common and well-enough understood today that it’s recently become a Grindr descriptor in profile settings. Only a few years ago and it would have been likely misunderstood or unknown altogether.