Have you reached a point where you turn yourself on? Can you look in the mirror and love what you see? Are you comfortable with naked pictures of your body. I ask this because it took me years and a weight loss journey to love myself more. I finally got to a stable body type I like and have been making improvements along the way. I'm not chisled or have a six pack. Just a working everyday, gym 4 times a week dad bod. I think that more of us can be happier if we start to focus on us and how we feel about our body rather than letting someone else's opinion define our sexiness or body. Once youve found yourself sexy and attractive, then acceptance or rejection become less traumatic. From a sexy thick bear, to a slender otter, and everything else, we are all sexy in our own way. But do we know it! I'm curious of your opinions. Please keep it positive!