My second week back on the dating scene and it's rough. Dating is work and a match will not take place overnight, you have to put yourself out in the world. Dating is one of those things that you have to find a way to make work for you. The other day I found myself at the mall looking at all the couples who seemed to be happy. It got me thinking about my ex and wondering what I could have done to make it work. I was looking at my reflection in the glass window wondering Who Wants Me? Dudes want to have sex with me but I found myself looking back at my past relationships, I wonder if I had changed who I am would I be married?

Have you ever felt like you had to change things about yourself to find love?

Note- Please do not take this post as shaming men who are not into feminine men. We are all human to different things. I am speaking about dating as looking for a partner to be in a relationship that would lead to marriage. Not about hooking up on Grindr. Some people are not into strawberry cheesecake, so you just find someone happy to dive face-first into that cake.