For those unfamiliar with the term, it's a feeling you get immediately after an orgasm, in which you come back to your senses and no longer feel horny.

I've never really felt it after having masturbated to porn, but I definitely have in situations involving another person, be them in person or virtual. It's not so much shame I feel, but more a complete lack of interest. I feel bad feeling that way, as I would like it if I could just appreciate being with someone. The porn I like consuming usually features people who continue to show affection and embracing each other right after sex, and I wish I could always feel that way.

I've found that it really depends on the person I'm with. Some people I retain interest in, others not so much. Is this perfectly normal, or is there some kind of solution?