I'm in a relationship with a guy who is uncut with a large foreskin. His penis typically has a very strong scent to it which unfortunately is a turnoff for me. We've talked about it a lot and he gets insulted when I bring it up. He says I'm too "clean" and that sex is dirty and I should get used to it. He does try to keep it cleaner now however, but not always.

The problem is that I've become averse to it now. I love him and am still attracted to him, but I don't want to put it in my mouth because I assume it's going to smell. This has dampened my sexual appetite to the point where I rarely initiate sex.

He has complained that I'm never the aggressor and he always has to initiate sex. And even then he knows I'm apprehensive about going near his cock. And the last time I wanted to suck it he stopped me because he hadn't cleaned it properly in the shower and knew I'd hate it.

He thinks I'm not attracted to him now and that I'm repelled by him. But I love him and want to be intimate with him. And I don't want him ti think I'm repelled by him. I know it makes him sad and he's cried about it with me. I don't know what to do. Can anyone suggest something? I'm at a loss.