I met a nice person through an online dating app specifically looking for gay friends. When we matched, he sent me a message right away and have been chatting and decided to meet for dinner the next day. He's not a local but was just in my town because he had to meet his partner somewhere else near my area. I had initial hesitations on meeting someone PARTNERED but we had anyway a good dinner, parted ways that night and continued to have conversations through text even after he flew back.

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Fast forward, I am coming to his town for a vacation and I asked him if he wants a friendly meet in one of the days. He however offered me to stay in his place, and cancel the airbnb that I got. So while I am enjoying the time hanging out, I am quite confused why he's been too accommodating for a person he just met once in person. Not that I am saying that I am a risk or unfriendly, but knowing he has a partner, isn't it just too much to offer things with someone you barely met? In one of our hikes, he keeps on flattering me and made a surprising flirting remark, but I don't want to spoil the moment saying to him that I know the boundaries that we have because of your partner and all.

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I know he can be just too friendly or am I just overthinking on what he said on the flirting remark?