I started talking to a cute guy on Grindr who also goes to the same campus as me our convos got pretty deep within the first few days we learned a lot about each other and we texted non stop we hung out twice in person and made out quite a bit (there was a spark) we decided to keep an open communication thing going and by the end of the first week we had a talk and he said he’s not ready for a relationship and we should wait we chose not to take things sexual to not ruin what we have but we agreed that it’s ok to sleep with other ppl just as long as we tell one another after 2 weeks I got fed up and realized I was catching feelings so I told him and asked him if within the next few months would he be down to become exclusive I got shot down again we drifted for a few days but still texted i messaged him again saying how I want things to go back to normal and he’s really cool he agreed he wants things back to normal that we still like each other and eventually we will have sex it’s just now is too soon but I feel like since then his texting style changed and he doesn’t seem as into it anymore with the lack of flirting and constant texting I guess my question is am I wasting my time? Should I just cut things off? Is this hopeless? Cause we have so much in common and I know we have something special mentally he’s going through a lot right now and doesn’t think that we should kiss even anymore and if we do hang out it’s to actually hang out Please help me!!!!!