I noticed that some POC would rather date European/Caucasian men instead of their own race. So I met this gay men who is asian who is currently single and very flirtatious with anyone but he surprised me that he will ONLY date white/caucasian men. I wouldn't get that first impression from him but he says he is into gingers. I personally don't understand this whole ginger fetish because white guys with red hair is like to me to white guys with brown, black and blonde hair..it just a color to me. I used to be that way in my twenties when I was dating because that's all I know.

Any minority that was gay had a negative stereotype that was attached to them so ended up what majority wanted...a white man.

Now in my late thirties, I'm out and confident in my sexuality ...the stereotypes slowly disappeared because I didn't rely on media to determine my opinions on minorities. I had my share of one nights with variety of minorites but the end goal was white men.

Now that we have a more diverse LGBTQIA in the media do you still date the European race ?