A bisexual I guy met from grindr that deleted the app shortly after he gave me his number bc he is not into hookup culture. His profile said he was looking to get drinks and connect. He also put only "chats, dates, friends, and relationship" as what hes looking for.

When I asked him through text what he was looking for he said he's looking to connect with someone and possibly date. He likes fun and one nights, but rather seek something meaningful.

I've seen him 3 times in a month. Each of which I slept over his place. We even napped while I was in his arms for 3hrs. He gave me his Instagram in person days ago when I saw him. He's liked all of my stories so far when I post. When we were figuring plans to meet, he said let's meet at his place to make our own drinks. When I'm there it ends up being very romantic, he makes fancy foods, cocktails, cheese board, lights a candle etc. He told me his phone passcode while he was cook for me to play music I like.

We never called anything anything a date. We have plans for brunch next weekend.