hi I'm a gay guy whose never had any experience at all (never even held hands romantically) but I'm kinda getting super curious and want to try things I want to know what being gay is like in terms of sex-related stuff and I don't think I'll find that organically anytime soon so I'm thinking of trying out this app.

although I guess my concern is would ppl actually be interested in doing stuff with someone whose inexperienced or be willing to show me? I'm a college student btw so ideally would want to do stuff with ppl in this age range.

I don't think I want to actually lose my virginity (as in penetration) yet esp bc ppl say to not lose it to some stranger online I'm more interested in starting slow like touch, foreplay, jerking, maybe oral? but idk if I'm making the right choice to jump into this app

also I'm not sure if I should use a face pic or just a body pic or idk in my profile or just wait to send a face pic when I actually talk to someone. I'm not dl I'm kinda out but it just feels weird to me that ppl ik might lurk on Grindr and may see that I'm looking to do stuff but maybe I'm just overthinking it and have to get over it

sorry this is long I just want to explain my worries if anyone has any insight or advice pls lmk tyy