First please read this article if you are sure what a “Side” is: https://www.pride.com/gay-news/what-side-grindr-might-be-adding-another-position-option-2659568974

For the longest I felt like an oddity in the gay community. I hated anal sex both giving and receiving, but enjoy rolling around naked in bed with another, holding him close, caressing his body and genitals, kissing, moaning, masturbating mutually, frot, and blowjobs.

But it was like pulling teeth to get most guys to understand that anal sex was just not on the table for me. Even with the new designation on Grindr, it still appears that most guys are only interested in a fast, anal inspection.

I don’t know how else to find guys interested in what I want sexually. Are “side” gays just really that rare?