My friend and I were really close about 2 years ago. I know she has ADHD (I think this point maybe important) and we were FWB. One day, we were making plans to meet up somewhere to fuck the following week. Then the next day, she started to ignore my messages, which was out of character of her. I let it slide and that following week’s plans did not materialize. She then shared abit about how slept with someone else in that week and I was supportive of her. She did told me that her ADHD makes her do crazy things and I have been supportive of her to see her doctor regularly and taking her medication, which she doesn’t cause she blames her ADHD. Then many weeks later after that week we were supposed to meet, she told me that she decided to stop what we were doing altogether and wanted to cut all contacts we had including social media. I don’t know whatever happened to her ever since then.

Today, I met her again at an event after so long had passed. I caught her staring at me from afar to which I looked at her and smile. She gave me a little smile back and we just went about in our separate groups at the event as if we were strangers. I guess my main point is that I miss her a friend because she was intelligent and fun as a person. The sex was a bonus but she is not someone I will settle down with, which was something we made very clear between us in the beginning. So, I don’t know what could have happen that made her want to do a nuclear option of just cutting me out altogether. Maybe her doctor convinced her that the FWB arrangement wasn’t good for her but mind you, the doctor’s past sex advice for her didn’t stop her previously from sleeping with other married men who hit on her.