In this day and age where so many men say that there's "a war on masculinity" and so many YouTubers that just spew so many nonsense I would like to have a discussion on masculinity through a feministic lense.

Specifically: what does being masculine even mean? especially what people would consider healthy masculinity.

As for the why I'm asking, I just want to grow as a person, in most facets of life - in a healthy way.

If I'm honsest, I've sadly fallen into some of the Red-pill traps and probably developed some sexist beliefs, trying to get rid of it though. I've found some subreddits such as r/Bropill and r/menslib which I would consider to be non-toxic most of the time.

I've also started reading the book Motherhood by Sarah Blaffer Hrdy and it definitely changed many of my views concerning the topic of well motherhood. As a side-note, definitely recommend it. If there are any other recommendations please feel free to share.

Anyhow thanks in advance for the responses! 🙂