Seeing an urologists

I went and saw 2 different urologist about my phimosis. They both happened to be females. They both concluded that i had penile skin bridge. But i feel like the phimosis is the biggest concern. When they looked at my penis it was in a soft state. And i can retract more. But when i’m erect, you can clearly see how tight the for-skin is. Is it ok to become erected while seeing the urologist, or ask them if it’s ok to show them how tight is while erect? Or is this consider rude or unprofessional?? I want to get my message across about the phimosis. I wouldn’t care if it was a male. But especially if it’s females, i don’t wanna be considered a creep? Has anyone seen a urologist and been erected or asked them if it’s ok to be erected? I just don’t know what’s normal! Thanks for any input.