Hello! I finally have a chance to get to Spain this November. I know it's not necessarily the perfect month weather wise, but it's the time I have. I'll be back for sure. The goal of this trip is mostly to get my bearings in other parts of Spain.

What I can't exactly sort out is what I should do with the ~4 days I am in Barcelona before heading to other parts of Spain.

I will be jet-lagged and landed at 9am Friday (departing from San Francisco USA) although I do plan to sleep on the plane, that never is certain to work out.

Given i'm headed back to Barcelona and Sitges someday in the future the main goal is to rest, eat well, see some sights, and go to a few gay clubs/parties. I have no intention of trying to hit every tourist destination and would rather feel like I know what I want to do my next time there.

I know both Sitges and Barcelona have great gay nightlife and that its fairly easy to take a quick train between them. What I am not sure about is what Sitges will be like given its nearly winter. Does the town empty out due to people only summering there? Are there still parties? Are the clubs still a good time as a solo traveler?

Also what "time" should I figure for going out in either destination? Is Sitges still an after midnight kinda place?