Hi all, I'm a completely inexperienced submissive and I just ran head first into a dom who wanted me to devote myself to her prior to meeting and after a week. I don't mean that as hyperbole either.

But, I'm someone who was tempted by BDSM because of comics like Black Label and Sunstone. I know there's a bit of fantasy depictions and it'll never be as smooth, but, is it unrealistic to seek that kind of interaction? Are there phrases that outline that sort of relationship I'm unaware of? Or, is it just unrealistic porn that doesn't actually reflect the real world?

Please be a bit understanding, I don't want to waste folks time.

TL/DR: Are there dom/sub relationships akin to those depicted in comics like Black Label and Sunstone or, are those simply porn?