So I am in Chicago to help a friend that’s moving to town. This is my first time in the city, and also as is my birthday month. I wanted to have a little fun. I had notice a companion that was touring years ago in Texas, but never quite made it to my area, so literally for about three or four years now I’ve kept this companion on my radar just in case I were to be the same place, and now I happen to be visiting her home city. I follow all the directions, attempt to keep communication open, do everything right that I’ve learned over the years in this world, even though I stopped consistently hobbing a couple years ago.

I get confirmation the morning of that we are still ago, then I hear nothing for the rest of the day. Our time comes and goes, I follow up a couple of times, I don’t hear anything back.

I sincerely hope that nothing really bad happened, and I like to assume the best… But I’m curious for you, ladies from your perspective, What situations or scenario would cause this from your perspective?

I actually still want to see this person, maybe it’s the years of pent up fantasizing and the fact that she really seems like an awesome person. Does this mean i did something wrong? How should i handle this?