Right out of the gate, I'm well aware that your job is to give pleasure, not receive. You're not typically attracted to clients, and don't normally get off when a guy clumsily tries. I get all that...

That said, if your ultimate goal is to have a client leave happy and fulfilled, is it out of line that I truly get super turned on by a woman that's also turned on? Without meaning to be unnecessarily vulgar, an aroused vagina is just... better. It's warmer, wetter, and better "equipped" to accept a larger penis without being uncomfortable. I know I'm preaching to the choir here. I'm just giving my justification...

Can I ask my provider to bring some toys that they enjoy? Toys that I can use on her as well? Is there ever a time when a guy that listens properly can get the job done with some DATY?

I'm not trying to be a hero or a pornstar here for the provider's benefit, but I always feel like sex is better with a partner that's enjoying themselves.