Earlier this week I visited a provider. This is the third person I have visited. I saw a woman back in 2012 who was extremely nice, no-rush, as-advertised, and no pressure to make me finish. While she was invested in it, she didn't stress about it when I told her I was having performance anxiety. Overall a great experience I don't regret.

Second woman I saw a few months ago was mostly the same, but I didn't end up being super attracted to her in-person. However, I made the best of the situation and had fun. She was very sweet and cool to talk to and fool around with and the price was right so all is well that ends well there. Don't regret it there either. That's the gamble you take when they don't post a face and/or topless photo in their ad.

However, this brings me to earlier this week. I decided to contact a transgender woman provider for the first time because I wanted a different experience. Her ad was informative, clear about expectations, etc. We made the appoiment and I showed up on time with the correct amount of payment.

We engaged in all the activities that she advertised as permitted. I was not pushy at all, made sure she was comfortable, and focused on having a fun time. I did have some performance anxiety but I focused on having a good time because stressing about it benefits no one. I can always pleasure the other person if things aren't consistent on my body's end. No worries.

I paid for two hours, we agreed on two hours before I got there, she counted the money at the beginning, all should have been well.

Not so.

At the 45 minute mark she started commenting a lot on how I wasn't finishing. I told her it was OK, I don't always do so. We can just rest for awhile now, or I can just get back to pleasuring her, or whatever she was comfortable with.

Then she went back to trying to get me off, her hand nearly setting my junk on fire. I eventually told her that we should rest for a bit. She commented again on how I wasn't finishing. I told her again that it was OK. You've been great.

At the hour mark she gets a call and she says I need to go because she has to get food for someone (?!) I told her that was fine and that I will leave. I was confused but remained polite and got dressed. I thanked her and left. I knew I couldn't ask for a partial refund or anything, but I paid for two hours and only got one, and she kept trying to rush everything!

Was she spooked by something and wanted me gone? Was she so upset that she couldnt make me finish? I tried to assure her that all was well and not to worry about me, but she didn't seem to absorb that.

Interested in everyone's thoughts.