I've seen a provider a few times now, and we get along just fine. There's a different provider that I've really wanted to connect with, but I'm worried about LEO or if she's a scam. Is it ever OK to ask the provider I've seen before if she knows anything about the other girl?

Before people direct me to the stickies, here are the things I've already dug into...

On the one hand, she's been posting on PD and Tryst for about 2 years, and googling her phone number and email just direct to her postings. She has a proton email address, and her photos are constantly being updated. None of them are particularly explicit.

On the other hand, she has zero online presence. No website, no Twitter, no TER reviews, nada. She does have reviews on PD and Tryst, but I'm not about to buy premium to read them.