How can I prove Habitual drunkenness in the state of Arkansas? If I divorce my husband for this, will I have to pay him alimony? Can he use connivance as a defense? My husband and i have been married for almost 5 years, and he's been an alcoholic for all of those years. He hasn't had a job either, I pay all the bills and everything is in my name. I have also been the one buying the alcohol for him even though the alcohol is ruining our marriage. I know it sounds crazy but I have never not bought it for him so I'm not sure what his reaction would be. But he recently left and was gone for 3 days and didn't answer my calls or texts, he's back now, but I haven't bought him any alcohol and I'm not going to because I just want to be done with this marriage. But I'm afraid he will be able to use connivance as a defense since I've been purchasing the alcohol. I'm also afraid that I will have to pay him alimony since I've been the only working this whole time. He is completely able to work just chooses not to. What do I need to do in order to prove Habitual Drunkenness, like, what kind of evidence would i need to submit? Any advice on all this would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!