I (35F), an American girl in the US, matched with a British man on a dating app who lives here as well. He claims to want a long term relationship and marriage and kids which is what I want as well.

So far, we’ve texted a lot and video chatted a couple times. What I’ve noticed is he brings up sex into the conversation every so often. For example, he said something along the lines of wanting a feminine woman to make him feel satisfied in love and in sex. It’s not been anything overtly detailed or descriptive. Mostly him expressing that this is important to him.

I mentioned I’m not really used to having sexual conversations brought up so early on, but he made it seem like it maybe a cultural difference?

The sad truth is people lie about their intentions, and I usually tend to associate bringing up sexual topics when we haven’t even met yet as a potential red flag that he’s only into a hookup. However, we live two hours away from each other, and he is supposedly quite wealthy (I’ve video chatted with him at his beach house), and I’ve read articles about him online related to that success that he shared, so I think it’s unlikely all this is a lie.

For someone of his wealth, I imagine he could easily find local girls to hookup with rather than waste weeks talking to and tricking a girl two hours away; and I should add he doesn’t force me into it and has shown willingness to wait until I am comfortable. He also doesn’t behave creepy by asking for sexual photos or saying weird things on video chat.

I bring all this up just to ask, as a Brit, is this how British people talk when they’re interested in someone romantically? I’m just afraid of getting my hopes up and left heart broken if all this is a game to him.