Hey all. I've come across this sub by chance but I was happy I did because I'm glad not all Asian people try to suck up to the whites and do not accept being the laughing stock.

I was born in Kazakhstan (moved to North America a little later in life) and the local men are hypermasculine (sometimes it becomes toxic because domestic violence is a problem over there). So it got imprinted in my brain that Asian men are super masculine and assertive.

Now in North America Asian men are portrayed as submissive (nothing wrong with that on its own though), meek, small dicks etc. And what pissed me off the most is A LOT of Asian people were self depreciating and tried to act white, suck up to white people, etc.

I heard of Asian women having the "white man fetish". I never cared about the colour of peoples skin, so it was really odd to me. The Asian men and women I dated (I'm bisexual) were all assertive and confident.

So anyways. Just wanted to share my 2 cents. Feel free to delete if it's inappropriate or doesn't fit the sub. But thanks for reading :)

EDIT: Also wanted to add that the yt dudes who are interested in me have the impression I must be all over them and must be the "obedient submissive" type. Then they quickly realize I'm anything but LMAO