So I am WF and I am attracted mainly to AM. Not anything weird, I just find them more attractive than other races. My problem was that I find it hard to connect with them. On dating apps they usually don’t swipe on me unless I do it first, only then they swipe back and seem interested, same in real life where I have to make the first move, but I do not want to be creepy about it and prefer the other way around. I had a relationship with AM before and again it was because I made the first move myself. Any tips on how to get more attention or date invites without doing it first? I think I am attractive, dress well, have good education. I did find situations where AM wouldn’t approach me thinking I would reject them purely based on their race, but I am getting tired of doing all the work, I think. Does anyone know from your experience how I can help myself in this situation?