Do you think there's a dishonest narrative being concocted by AW to rationalize their preference for dating WM over AM?

Example: WM are more egalitarian, they are not clingy/possessive, they don't expect rigid gender roles, they are more self sufficient and willing to do chores around the house, they give us more respect, they are more progressive/liberal, etc.

Upon closer inspection it turns out that none of these stereotypes about AM are true, and AW's preference is totally rooted in physical attraction, self-hatred /need to move away from Asian-ness, and a strong need for validation & assimilation into white culture/social hierarchy.

And these reasons are fine. We shouldn't be bothered about them.

But we do have a right to question why they feel the need to throw AM under the bus just because they don't like being honest about the real reasons behind their preferences.