I’ve been recently divorced from my ex-husband (Asian) after four years of marriage. I got married very young, so the dating game has changed a lot. I got back into the dating game and have a few advice for men. This is not just for Asian men but all race. This is dating advice on how to not get kicked out when dating a woman on social media or apps. It’s common sense.

1. Please don’t send dick pics without being asked. It’s disrespectful. Your erected penis isn’t special. Most men have a hard penis. Penises don’t turn us on.

2. If I don’t reply in an hour and we barely know each other, don’t text me to ask if I’m still there.

3. Your first message should be introducing yourself and asking me a question about me. Please want to get to know me. Don’t just talk about yourself all the time.

4. Don’t demand me to send pictures of myself when we haven’t chatted much. I don’t know you, and I’m not obligated to do whatever you want. I’m not your maid or servant.

5. Don’t talk about how you like big boobs or ass when we barely know each other. It’s a turn off.

6. Don’t expect me to video chat you immediately for verification when I don’t even know you. It’s creepy.

7. Don’t ask me to meet up at your place. Meet somewhere public first.

8. Don’t talk about other pretty girls around me.

9. Don’t talk about your insecurities when we barely chatted.

10. Don’t brag about how cute you are. Even fuckboys don’t pull that move.