Confusing title, I know. I'll explain. u/rosegoldskinny hit on something in their post that resonated with me a bit, specifically about feeling guilt for wanting sex, though I wouldn't necessarily describe myself as feeling guilty. I also brought this up in a previous post. Basically, even though my GF is willing to have sex, I find myself not asking for it anyway. I don't think it's a lack of attraction to her, but any time I feel like I'd like to have sex, I find myself choosing not to even ask. Not entirely sure why this is, but as far as I can tell, the fact that she isn't interested in sex seems to be a turn off for me.

Anyway, I'm curious if anyone else has experienced similar thoughts/feelings and if you've explored the why of it.