I was talking to my group chat a couple of weeks ago and said that I actually was curious about trying sex eventually. Figuring out if it is fun, and then my two best friends asked me a couple of days later if I was interested in a threesome with them. They wanted to be my first and help with me knowing what I am and am not comfortable with.

It was honestly pretty fun and I know I feel sexual attraction to them.

But before they asked, the thought hadn’t crossed my mind at all.

There are people at work who have flirted with me and I’m starting to think I may feel some sexual attraction to them.

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Before I was ace, then I felt different and curious about sex, then thinking I was demi, and now I’m not sure.

The thing I’ve noticed is just me realising that I’ve not had any interest in anyone until they have flirted with me about it, or asked about sex with me.

It’s weird and I don’t know what I am now. I was ace before, now I don’t know what.

Labels matter a lot to me so I’m not the sort of person that can just ignore labels.

Thanks